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Remembering the dead, in all their glory and their failings

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Sullivan, J. E. (2026, October 31). Remembering the dead, in all their glory and their failings. The Sydney Morning Herald. https://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life-and-relationships/remembering-the-dead-in-all-their-glory-and-their-failings-20261101-p61a67.html?ref=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_source=rss_feed

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The article discusses the observance of All Souls’ Day, which follows All Saints’ Day and comes after Halloween. It emphasizes remembering all deceased members of the faith community, not just saints, highlighting that this commemoration includes acknowledging both the positive attributes and flaws of the departed. The author argues for a holistic approach to remembrance, integrating memories of loved ones' imperfections alongside their virtues, suggesting that such a practice fosters genuine and honest recollection.

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On November 2, 2026, the Western Christian calendar marks All Souls’ Day, a day to remember and honor all departed faithful members of the church. This follows All Saints’ Day and precedes All Hallows’ Eve on October 31. Historically, "saints" referred broadly to all members of the faith community but later came to denote a select group officially recognized by the church for their exceptional deeds or lives, often involving significant personal sacrifice.

Despite many saints having notable character flaws and questionable behaviors—such as Saint Paul and Saint Augustine—the day emphasizes that everyone will eventually be remembered as a soul. This inclusivity reflects a democratic approach to honoring all deceased individuals, regardless of their perceived moral imperfections or church affiliation during life.

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Who wrote this

Jane E Sullivan

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🔮 Our minds may race back to the moments when our character flaws got in the way, or when we failed them in some big or little matter.

2026-10-31 · assertive framing · Remembering the dead, in all their glory and their failings

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Christian NORP · 2× Christ PERSON · 1× Jane E Sullivan PERSON · 1× Melbourne GPE · 1× Saint Augustine PERSON · 1× Saint Paul PERSON · 1×

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Even though many saints had significant character flaws and histories of questionable behaviours, such as Saint Paul and Saint Augustine, most of us won’t make it into this venerated company.

framing: assertive · carried by 1 article(s) · first seen 2026-10-31

🔮 Our minds may race back to the moments when our character flaws got in the way, or when we failed them in some big or little matter.

2026-10-31 · The Sydney Morning Herald

Remembering the dead, in all their glory and their failings · assertive framing

Claims (30 extracted, 2 hedged)

It is the day the church remembers the souls of the faithful departed. asserted

church → remember → faithful

All Souls’ Day follows All Saints’ Day, and before it the preparatory All Hallows’ Eve on 31 October. asserted

Day → follow → October

It concludes a time of commemoration and thanksgiving. asserted

It → conclude → commemoration

Over time customary usage came to refer to a rarefied group of exceptional individuals, officially recognised by the church. asserted

usage → come → church

In the name of Christ, for the sake of the faith these believers risked and often lost limb or life, completed miraculous feats or led exemplary lives. asserted

believers → risk → lives

Even though many saints had significant character flaws and histories of questionable behaviours, such as Saint Paul and Saint Augustine, most of us won’t make it into this venerated company. asserted

most → have → company

We are, however, destined to become souls. asserted

We → destine → ?

And there’s something democratic about the church making space to honour all her dead. asserted

church → ’ → dead

Whether they were churched or unchurched, sincerely remembering our dead loved ones can be complicated. asserted

remembering → church → ones

Not only because it prompts thoughts of our mortality but because true remembrance means recognising the whole person. asserted

remembrance → prompt → person

People come with sparkling brilliance as well as glaring blemishes. asserted

People → come → brilliance

Death doesn’t automatically transform someone into a saint. asserted

Death → transform → saint

Death doesn’t erase character faults or bad actions. asserted

Death → erase → faults

But critiquing our dead loved ones feels disloyal, unfair and uncomfortable. asserted

critiquing → critique → ones

They have no right of reply. asserted

They → have → reply

A genuine remembrance, however, involves integrating a person’s contradictions into our memory. asserted

remembrance → involve → memory

It means putting their foibles and failures, their struggles and vulnerabilities, alongside their virtues, their triumphs, and what made them lovable. asserted

them → mean → virtues

After all in life we accommodated the whole person into our hearts. asserted

we → accommodate → hearts

It’s striking that often for mourners the most beneficial eulogies portray the real person. asserted

eulogies → ’ → person

As we remember our dead, inevitably our relationship with them comes into focus. asserted

relationship → remember → focus

Our own merits and shortcomings are seen, revealed in the context and history of the relationship. asserted

merits → see → relationship

That’s fair enough, honest recollection cuts both ways. asserted

recollection → ’ → ?

Our minds may race back to the moments when our character flaws got in the way, or when we failed them in some big or little matter. uncertain

we → race → matter

Past hurts can outlive their perpetrator. asserted

hurts → outlive → perpetrator

Relationship tensions may remain unresolved, and words left unspoken. Regret, shame and plain old sadness may form parts of our memory. uncertain

Regret → remain → memory

Living with such feelings is difficult. asserted

Living → live → feelings

Hopefully, the unsettling parts in our relationships with the dead are held together with feelings of happiness, gratitude, and contentment. asserted

parts → hold → happiness

As we commemorate All Souls’ Day, let’s truly remember our loved ones. asserted

’s → commemorate → ones

Who knows, perhaps on a future All Souls’ Day, someone will remember us, the exquisitely human us. asserted

someone → know → us

Jane E Sullivan lives and worships in Melbourne. asserted

Sullivan → live → Melbourne