The swimming pool is long, serene and lined with huge healing crystals, the water unbroken.
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water → line → crystals
The sauna is full of financiers, businessmen and banter led by Sir Ben Elliot, the former Tory chairman and nephew of Queen Camilla.
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sauna → lead → Camilla
Wellness-obsessed housewives ease themselves into cold-plunge barrels.
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housewives → obsess → barrels
Battles rage on the padel courts, involving illustrious names such as the Belvoir scion Lady Alice Manners, jeweller Charlie Pragnell and Charlie Brooks, the racehorse trainer and husband of Rebekah, Rupert Murdoch’s UK media chief.
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Battles → rage → Rebekah
Upstairs afterwards, it’s Chateau Leoube rosé and WFB: working from Bamford.
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it → ’ → Bamford
None of my sources have spotted Meghan here yet, but this is the place the Sussexes will really need to crack if they want to make it into a certain Cotswolds set.
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they → spot → set
And it will be much trickier to enter this world
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it → enter → world
than the celebrity enclave Soho Farmhouse, where the Duchess of Sussex was seen earlier this month amid much speculation that the pair have decided to put down roots in the Cotswolds
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pair → see → Cotswolds
A ready-made heaven of cream tones, The Club requires an annual fee of £4000 ($7500), a £1650 joining fee and the approval of the committee to become a member.
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Club → make → committee
Member or not, Meghan should seek to impress its owner, Cotswolds power broker Lady Bamford.
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Meghan → seek → owner
The Club is on the Daylesford Farm estate, along with its famous shop and Daylesford House itself, where Lady B, as she’s known to friends, lives with her husband, Lord Bamford – owner of JCB and donor to both the Tories and Reform UK.
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she → know → Tories
If Meghan wants to rise socially here, Carole Bamford is exactly who she needs.
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she → want → who
“If you get invited to one of her personal parties,” says a longstanding member of the hierarchy, nervous about identification, “you’re in.
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you → invite → identification
Carole knows absolutely everybody.
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Carole → know → everybody
If she’s curious about someone, she’ll probably invite them.
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she → ’ → them
JD Vance went to Daylesford, Boris Johnson [had his wedding celebrations there] and Jeremy Clarkson is there the whole time.
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Clarkson → go → celebrations
She can entertain on a large scale.
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She → entertain → scale
While the Bamfords themselves are as respected, country-savvy and popular as you can get, the “new Cotswolds” set, who come to play at the weekend and splash the cash at places such as Daylesford, are more overtly glossy – bankers and hedgefunders rather than farmers and gentry – and are sometimes looked down upon by the people who see themselves as “real country”.
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who → get → country
Meghan will have to choose which group she wants to appeal to most.
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she → have → group
The challenge of becoming a member of the Daylesford scene won’t be the only uphill battle for Meghan as she seeks to become accepted in the Cotswolds.
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she → become → Cotswolds
At a grand dinner party last Saturday night, one social friend conducted an experiment: “I sat next to these men and started talking about Meghan, and one almost left.
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one → conduct → Meghan
He said, ‘If you say that word one more time …’
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you → say → word
So it wasn’t only ‘We don’t want anything to do with her’, but ‘Do not degrade my house by bringing it up’.
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We → want → it
I think half of these people are friendly with the King, so it’s maybe in deference to him and the stuff they’ve been through.
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they → think → him
To stand a chance, she’ll need to become au fait with the faultlines.
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she → stand → faultlines
Helen Kirwan-Taylor, writer, broadcaster and fellow American, who moved near Cirencester on the Gloucester side of the Cotswolds decades ago, is an expert.
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who → move → Cotswolds
“The real snobbism is between the Gloustocracy and the Beckhams,” she says.
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she → say → Gloustocracy
Sir David and Lady Beckham have become shorthand for the Oxfordshire celebrity scene, which also includes Ellie Goulding and Simon Cowell.
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which → become → Goulding
Some see the divide plainly as Gloucestershire vs Oxfordshire – “real country” vs a glamorous cosplay version for weekenders.
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Some → see → weekenders
Though it’s not so clean-cut as that.
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it → ’ → that
Kirwan-Taylor describes the glossy set as “usually finance or media bros, and they don’t really know anything about the Cotswolds”: “They’ll go to the members’ clubs.
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They → describe → clubs
They chose it because of what their friends do and say, and they’ve never been outside of that little triangle.”
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they → choose → triangle
Meghan will have to get up to speed fast.
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Meghan → have → speed
You can tell a phoney a mile off, especially an American phoney.
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You → tell → phoney
For example, she mustn’t say “The Cotswolds” – a tourist term that proves you’ve never really been.
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you → say → Cotswolds
Real locals refer to the exact town: Chipping Norton or Cirencester or Stroud.
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locals → refer → town
The deepest rooted identify themselves by which A-road they live near.
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they → root → road
Just because you have enough millions in the bank to buy property here does not make you a member of the Gloustocracy.
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you → buy → Gloustocracy
You need to be able to prove you know something, by speaking the lingo.
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you → need → lingo
Conversations end up being about horses or farmland or right of way or dual carriageways,” says Kirwan-Taylor.
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Taylor → end → way
…and 60 more, not listed.
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