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Buying a home or even moving into a rented property is an increasingly unrealistic dream for many young people.
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This summer, BBC Your Voice revealed more than 40% of 25-year-olds were now living with their parents.
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Dozens of young people told us they were having to rely on the so-called Bank of Mum and Dad to help cover rent, bills and other living costs.
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But what happens if you cannot rely on help from family?
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Citizens Advice says increasing numbers are struggling to afford everyday essentials like rent and food without support from their parents.
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Three women told us how they are navigating life without that safety net.
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'I want to be independent... so when you get to this kind of thing it's like hitting a wall'
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Eleanor Bell, 23, from East Riding of Yorkshire, has a first-class degree but is struggling to find work
Eleanor Bell is now 23, but was taken into care when she was 10.
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She grafted hard to do well at school and got a first-class degree from the University of Central Lancashire.
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After graduating two years ago, she thought the playing field would even out.
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It hasn't.
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Eleanor says she has applied for more jobs than she can count and had a handful of unsuccessful interviews.
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She's currently living in her boyfriend's home outside Penistone in South Yorkshire, which helps with living costs, but the rural location has made the job hunt harder for someone without a driving licence.
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"I know a lot of people who've got jobs because their mum or dad worked there before them."
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When she saw a BBC article about how many young people now live with their parents, she got in touch.
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"I guess it makes me a bit sad.
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I'd like to live with my parents... but it made me think about the people like me, the people that don't have that, what are they doing then?
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Who do they have to fall back on?
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"It's like everyone in their 20s is having to tread water, but I haven't been given a buoyancy aid," Eleanor tells the BBC.
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Official figures show that 39% of care leavers aged 19 to 21 in England are not in education, employment or training, compared with around 13% of young people overall.
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"I want to be independent and so when you get to this kind of thing it's like hitting a wall."
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For Eleanor, it's not just financial support and the roof over her head that she's missing.
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"You don't have someone to hold you and go, 'Look I've done the same thing, but don't worry' … that lack of preparation I think really does affect you," she explains.
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"I don't quite know what to do, that's how I feel, just a bit lost.
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I'm just back to being in the dark without a torch kind of thing, that's what it feels like.
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'I don't buy any luxuries, I rarely do anything fun'
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Sam Barrett, 24, from Sunderland, is studying part-time.
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She left her full-time job to care for her mum
In Sunderland, Sam Barrett, 24, feels frustrated that others her age have a financial back-stop that isn't available to her.
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She left her full-time job in the hospitality business to care for her mum and is studying health and social care part-time, but says that Careers Allowance and Universal Credit don't cover her main expenses.
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"Not a lot is coming in, you only get so much being a carer.
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I don't buy any luxuries, I rarely do anything fun," she says.
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Her mum helps financially when she can, but there's not a lot of money to go around and Sam says she's conscious of that.
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"I've always felt it was a bit unfair growing up and seeing other people being at a massive advantage compared to me.
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Like a lot of parents would be like, 'here's money for driving lessons, and here's your car', and I can't just do that," she says.
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Sam's angry there isn't more pay for carers like her.
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"I'm saving the government money by caring for my mam.
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The government aren't doing anything to help you, they're basically saying just get into debt."
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'My parents were struggling financially, just like I am, just like everyone else'
Ezgi Polat, 23, from Cambridgeshire, lost her job a year ago and quickly fell behind on rent and bills
In a recent survey of more than 5,500 people, commissioned by Citizens Advice, 36% adults said they were behind on at least one bill, but for those in their 20s that figure climbs to 57%.
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When the 23-year-old, from Ramsey in Cambridgeshire, lost her job 12 months ago, her family weren't in a position to help, so she quickly fell behind on rent and bills.
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"My parents were struggling financially, just like I am, just like everyone else....
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…and 13 more, not listed.
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