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Penn Badgley’s wife, Domino Kirke, defends actor’s controversial decision to stop filming sex scenes

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Zenna, J. (2026, September 29). Penn Badgley’s wife, Domino Kirke, defends actor’s controversial decision to stop filming sex scenes. New York Post. https://pagesix.com/2026/09/29/celebrity-news/penn-badgleys-wife-defends-actors-decision-to-stop-filming-sex-scenes/

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New York Post · collected 2026-09-29 · by Jolie Zenna

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Domino Kirke, wife of actor Penn Badgley, addressed ongoing criticism on Instagram that she influenced her husband to stop filming sex scenes in his projects. She clarified that Badgley made the decision independently three years ago due to his mental health and career boundaries, noting it had no influence from their relationship. Kirke emphasized this as a form of "relational hygiene" beneficial for both professional and personal life, while also highlighting her own work as a doula supporting similar choices by others.
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Domino Kirke, wife of Penn Badgley, defended her husband's decision to stop filming sex scenes on his TV show "You" during an Instagram video post. Kirke clarified that the decision was made by Badgley three years ago for personal and mental health reasons, not at her insistence as some fans have speculated. She emphasized that this choice was a form of "relational hygiene," which has also influenced her own career boundaries as a doula. The actress addressed persistent fan speculation in her video, stating that those who continue to question the decision should move on from it.

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“If you have a partner, and you want to be with your partner, and you have to [be intimate] with another person, frankly for me, it’s just not my desire,” he shared on “Andy Cohen Live,” in February 2023.
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Penn Badgley’s wife, Domino Kirke, denied accusations that she made the actor stop filming sex scenes. asserted
actor → deny → scenes
“I continue to get DMs about this thing that happened about three years ago, when my husband decided that he didn’t want to do intimacy scenes anymore,” she began in a Monday Instagram video. asserted
she → continue → video
“Meaning, he didn’t want to have sex. asserted
he → mean → sex
He didn’t want to kiss. asserted
He → want → ?
He didn’t want to do any of that, which was really major in his industry because that’s the thing they want you to do the most.” asserted
you → want → industry
She noted that because of the characters Badgley has played over the years, fans have come to “expect” him to have intimate scenes in the projects he does. asserted
he → note → projects
“I want to say, to those of you who still DM me about my husband deciding to do this for himself and his mental health, get over it.” asserted
husband → want → it
Kirke, 42, insisted that the “You” actor made the decision as “relational hygiene” and that it inspired her to set more boundaries in her own career. asserted
it → insist → career
“When he decided he didn’t want to do this anymore, I was super happy for him, very proud of him,” she gushed. “Because I understood how major it was. asserted
it → decide → him
It’s just relational hygiene and I strive to practice this in my career as a doula,” she said, noting that she’s “not just Penn Badgley’s wife.” asserted
she → ’ → doula
“I also do things like support people in making these kinds of decisions for themselves and their careers.” asserted
I → do → themselves
Badgley made headlines in 2023 when he stated he didn’t want to participate in intimate scenes anymore and cited his relationship with Kirke as one of the reasons why. asserted
he → make → reasons
“If you have a partner, and you want to be with your partner, and you have to [be intimate] with another person, frankly for me, it’s just not my desire,” he shared on “Andy Cohen Live,” in February 2023. asserted
he → have → February
Badgley also noted that filming sex scenes “involves all kinds of objectification.” asserted
filming → note → objectification
The 38-year-old did have some exceptions to this rule, however, and later clarified that it was more of his preference not to and not a definite no. asserted
it → have → preference
He did, notably, engage in several intimate scenes during the fifth and final season of his Netflix series, which premiered in April 2025. asserted
which → engage → April
“And as I always said, I said, my desire is that least as possible, but if it’s necessary, that’s the show we all sign up to make. asserted
we → say → ?
So, let’s make sure it’s vital, let’s make sure it’s important, it’s deliberate. asserted
it → make → ?
And we did.” asserted
we → do → ?
Kirke and Badgley started dating in 2014, and tied the knot in February 2017 at a New York courthouse. asserted
Kirke → start → courthouse
The couple are parents to a 6-year-old son, whom they welcomed in August 2020, and also welcomed twin boys in September 2025. asserted
they → welcome → September
They have kept the names of their children private. asserted
They → keep → children
Conversation Your voice matters. asserted
voice → matter → Conversation
Discussions are moderated for civility. asserted
Discussions → moderate → civility
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