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Inside Kristi Noem's extraordinary new life after divorce filing... as Corey Lewandowski grows 'closer than ever' and Bryon virtually vanishes

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Cohen, S., & Ashford, B. (2026, September 30). Inside Kristi Noem's extraordinary new life after divorce filing... as Corey Lewandowski grows 'closer than ever' and Bryon virtually vanishes. Daily Mail. https://www.dailymail.com/news/article-16170941/Kristi-Noem-divorce-Corey-Lewandowski-Bryon-Noem-crossdressing.html?ns_mchannel=rss&ns_campaign=1490&ito=1490

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Daily Mail · collected 2026-09-30 · by Shawn Cohen, Ben Ashford

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Kristi Noem filed for divorce from her husband Bryon Noem in April after local media revealed Bryon's cross-dressing activities and explicit online interactions. The filing was confirmed this week when court documents were posted in Hamlin County, South Dakota. Since then, Kristi has distanced herself from Castlewood, maintaining a low profile while taking trips to events like the Buffalo Roundup in Custer, South Dakota. Meanwhile, Bryon Noem is virtually absent from public view in their hometown.
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Story summary

Kristi Noem, South Dakota's governor and former Homeland Security official, filed for divorce from her husband Bryon Noem in July 2023. The decision came after reports surfaced about Bryon's extramarital affairs, including one with dominatrix Shy Sotomayor, who goes by the stage name Raelynn Riley. These revelations followed a birthday party for their grandchild in April where Corinne Arnold, Kristi’s mother, privately questioned her daughter about the future of their relationship. The divorce papers were officially filed early that same month and cited "irreconcilable differences" as the reason for separation. Since then, Bryon has moved out to a location 20 miles away from their home in Castlewood, South Dakota. Locals have been aware of the situation since rumors circulated about Kristi's plans to divorce, with many believing that her mother’s comments at the party were truthful. Additionally, there are claims that Bryon was an "obedient boy" for Raelynn Riley on and off over nearly a decade.

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📰 Kristi Noem's Life After Divorce
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This article reads unscored and hedges 6% of its claims. Each row says how that neighbour differs.
New York Post
Hedges 0 of 8 claims Outlet record 66/100
“The articles describe different aspects of the Noem's divorce process, with Article A focusing on the moment Kristi informed her mother about filing for divorce and Article B discussing Bryon's lawyer's statement regarding potential court proceedings.”
New York Post
Hedges 0 of 5 claims Outlet record 66/100
“Article A reports on Kristi Noem filing for divorce, while Article B discusses reactions and conversations following the decision to get a divorce, indicating they are describing different stages of the same general event.”
The Independent
Hedges 1 of 21 claims Outlet record 59/100
“While both articles discuss the divorce of Kristi and Bryon Noem, Article A focuses on a conversation at a birthday party and Kristi's decision to file for divorce, while Article B reports on Bryon Noem breaking his silence about the divorce after it has been filed.”
Daily Mail
Hedges 0 of 10 claims Outlet record 68/100
“Article A reports on Kristi Noem filing for divorce and the court documents being made public, while Article B discusses a conversation about the divorce after it had been filed.”
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Shawn Cohen
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Topics

Castlewood Custer Homeland Security South Dakota the Daily Mail

Subjects

Kristi PERSON · 9× the Daily Mail ORG · 9× Homeland Security ORG · 4× Bryon PERSON · 3× Bryon Noem PERSON · 3× Corey Lewandowski PERSON · 3× South Dakota GPE · 3× Castlewood GPE · 2× Corinne Arnold PERSON · 2× Custer GPE · 2×

Narrative

The vast trove of saucy texts, WhatsApp messages and images revealed that clean-cut Bryon had his own share of secrets Bryon supported his wife back in March by sitting dutifully beside her at a congressional hearing scrutinizing her aggressive immigration enforcement tactics Dominatrix Shy Sotomayor, who goes by the stage name Raelynn Riley, says Bryon served as her 'obedient boy' on and off online for nearly a decade Kristi and Byron wed in 1992 but their marriage has been dogged for years by reports that the former Homeland Security secretary was having an affair with her longtime adviser Corey Lewandowski (pictured above)
framing: assertive · carried by 1 article(s) · first seen 2026-09-30
🔮 These included Shy Sotomayor, a Colorado-based dominatrix with massive 2500cc breast implants who was one of the several women to share their story with the Daily Mail.

Claims (52 extracted, 3 hedged)

It was one of the most devastatingly awkward moments imaginable - a hometown birthday party in April in South Dakota for Kristi and Bryon Noem's grandchild, just weeks after the Daily Mail exposed Bryon's crossdressing fetish and explicit exchanges with online porn models. asserted
Mail → expose → models
As the adults put on smiling faces to celebrate, Kristi Noem's 77-year-old mother took her aside to address the elephant in the room. asserted
mother → put → room
Are you going to get together again?' Corinne Arnold asked. asserted
Arnold → go → ?
We're going to get a divorce,' the daughter replied, and told her that, yes, she'd hired a lawyer. asserted
she → go → lawyer
The paperwork was filed early that same month. asserted
paperwork → file → ?
The Daily Mail broke the news of Kristi's plans to divorce him in July, after speaking to her mother who shared her account and explained how Bryon, 56, had already moved out and was living 20 miles away. asserted
Bryon → break → account
It therefore came as no shock to locals in hometown Castlewood this week when the filing was finally posted in Hamlin County court, citing 'irreconcilable differences' as the grounds for the split. 'Everyone took what the mom said to you as truth,' a local acquaintance of the now exes told the Daily Mail on Tuesday. asserted
acquaintance → come → Tuesday
Kristi Noem has been keeping a low profile in her hometown, locals say. asserted
locals → keep → hometown
But she posted photos over the weekend of herself attending the Buffalo Roundup in Custer, South Dakota Kristi filed for divorce from Bryon Noem in April - soon after the Daily Mail exposed his cross-dressing fetish and explicit exchanges with porn models Bryon Noem's secret double life as a cross-dresser was exposed when the Daily Mail published photos of him posing in tight pink shorts and a flesh-colored crop top stretched over enormous fake breasts 'We knew this was coming, that they were going to get divorced,' Kristi's mother Corinne Arnold told the Daily Mail back in July ' asserted
mother → post → July
She said they were splitting up and divorcing. asserted
they → say → ?
The 54-year-old former Homeland Security Secretary, who was ousted in March and is now working as a special envoy for the newly created Shield of the Americas and as a strategic adviser to Vancouver-based NovaRed Mining Inc, posted a slew of photos on social media over the weekend. asserted
who → oust → weekend
She attended a home-state pheasant hunting event over the weekend with fellow ousted Homeland Security official Greg Bovino. asserted
She → attend → Bovino
And she also got on the saddle at the Buffalo Roundup in Custer, South Dakota. asserted
she → get → Custer
But according to the Castlewood businesswoman, Kristi, who previously served as governor, and her now estranged husband, who run an insurance company, haven't ventured out much in public in their hometown for months. uncertain
who → accord → months
'Kristi is still out at her ranch but has kept a low profile,' the source told the Daily Mail. asserted
source → keep → Mail
'She put up a bunch of new fencing. asserted
She → put → fencing
' 'I haven't seen Bryon at all,' she added. asserted
she → see → Bryon
The couple were wed in 1992, but their marriage came under intense scrutiny in 2023 when the Daily Mail reported her alleged affair with married Corey Lewandowski. Bryon Noem and Kristi were wed in 1992, but their marriage came under intense scrutiny in 2023 when the Daily Mail reported her alleged affair with married Corey Lewandowski. asserted
Mail → we → Lewandowski
Kristi and Lewandowski were pictured spending quality time in Minnesota amid her divorce in August. asserted
Kristi → picture → August
She filed in April News of the divorce filing comes just days the 54-year-old former Homeland Security Secretary posted a photo of herself on X at a home-state pheasant hunting event over the weekend with ex Homeland Security chief Greg Bovino asserted
Secretary → file → Bovino
Noem, who is now special envoy for the Shield of the Americas, attended the United Nations General Assembly in New York City last week. asserted
who → attend → City
Despite her public facing appearances, locals say she has rarely been seen in her hometown of late Her close relationship with Corey Lewandowski has been well documented ever since. asserted
relationship → face → Lewandowski
And observers wonder about the next step for the newly single former Secretary. asserted
observers → wonder → Secretary
'Corey is still married, but the last time they were pictured together they seemed very close,' said one. asserted
one → picture → ?
Kristi and Lewandowski were pictured spending quality time in Minnesota amid her divorce in August, four months after she filed. asserted
she → picture → August
In images obtained by the Daily Mail, the two were seen cozying up to one another as they ate at an outdoor restaurant along the shores of Lake Minnetonka in Wayzata on Tuesday before enjoying a bike ride along the waterfront. asserted
they → obtain → waterfront
At one point during their outing, Noem was seen looking at something on her beau's phone and laughing as they waited for food at The Grocer's Table cafe. asserted
they → see → cafe
'Kristi and Corey are closer than ever,' an insider told the Daily Mail after they were busted on the date-like outing. asserted
they → tell → outing
It's understood that Bryon, even after his own scandal broke, continued to message several of the women even after his lust for buxom fetish models was revealed to the world in March. asserted
lust → understand → March
These included Shy Sotomayor, a Colorado-based dominatrix with massive 2500cc breast implants who was one of the several women to share their story with the Daily Mail. asserted
who → include → Mail
Sotomayor was pictured and named in our April 10 article but she claims that Bryon got in touch with her five weeks later - as if nothing had happened. uncertain
nothing → picture → her
'May 17th, he texted me on iMessage. uncertain
he → texte → iMessage
I'm like, "Oh, I know. asserted
I → know → ?
I know you've been a bad boy,"' Sotomayor told podcaster Spencer Macnaughton. asserted
Sotomayor → know → Macnaughton
'I sent him a very long message saying, you know, Bryon, I thought really hard on this. asserted
I → send → this
You need help. asserted
You → need → help
If it's not clear by now or after being America's joke, I truly don't know what is.' asserted
what → know → ?
Two more women have told the Daily Mail they, too, received messages from Bryon in the months after the bombshell expose. asserted
they → tell → expose
One said the rancher and insurance mogul made small talk, refusing to be drawn on his future plans or say whether his marriage was over. asserted
marriage → say → plans
Another model said she didn't respond because she was worried that Bryon was 'fishing' for information about the Daily Mail's sources. asserted
Bryon → say → sources
…and 12 more, not listed.
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