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Woman says cyber-stalking ex made life hell with foreign spies, GPS on car, scrambling her phone

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Kaplan, M. (2026, October 1). Woman says cyber-stalking ex made life hell with foreign spies, GPS on car, scrambling her phone. New York Post. https://nypost.com/2026/10/01/us-news/woman-says-cyber-stalking-ex-made-life-hell-with-foreign-spies-gps-on-car/

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New York Post · collected 2026-10-01 · by Michael Kaplan

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A woman identified only as AM describes how her ex-boyfriend turned smart home technology against her after their breakup, installing GPS trackers in her car and using apps to control her house's lighting and TV. He also accessed her computer cloud data, altered contact information to damage her professional reputation, and hired people to follow her internationally. Security expert Steven S. Stern confirmed the presence of spyware on AM’s devices. Police are investigating but have not made an arrest. This incident highlights growing concerns over technology misuse in cyberstalking cases.
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A woman identified only as AM reported being stalked by her ex-partner in Connecticut after a breakup. The stalker used smart home technology to harass her, controlling lights and turning off her TV when her daughter watched it. He placed GPS trackers in her car and even spied on her using foreign intelligence services, causing significant distress. AM works in the fashion, luxury retail, and beauty industries. She expressed concern over how easily accessible tracking devices are, noting that they were used to monitor her activities closely after she ended their relationship. This case highlights vulnerabilities in interconnected smart technology and raises privacy concerns for users of such gadgets.

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Michael Kaplan
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Connecticut European Ireland Rolodex The Post

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Ireland GPE · 2× The Post ORG · 2× Aine O’Neill PERSON · 1× California GPE · 1× Connecticut GPE · 1× European NORP · 1× Rolodex ORG · 1× Safe Harbor Advisory ORG · 1× Stern PERSON · 1× Steven S. Stern PERSON · 1×

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I loved the idea of controlling lights and my stereo speakers remotely, through my phone,” said the victim, who works in “the creative side of fashion, luxury retail and beauty,” and only wanted to be identified by her initials, AM, for reasons of privacy.
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🔮 “He knew he could paralyze me and take me down.

Claims (40 extracted, 5 hedged)

A jilted psycho stalker turned his ex’s home into a horror movie — flashing lights in her room, turning her TV on and off and tracking her every move. asserted
stalker → turn → move
Smart technology has made our lives more convenient, but the interconnectedness of gadgets leaves people especially vulnerable, according to security experts. uncertain
interconnectedness → make → experts
A victim who spoke to The Post said she came home from a European trip to receive news of a seemingly thoughtful gesture from the guy she was dating. asserted
she → speak → guy
“He told me that I now have a smart house. asserted
I → tell → house
I loved the idea of controlling lights and my stereo speakers remotely, through my phone,” said the victim, who works in “the creative side of fashion, luxury retail and beauty,” and only wanted to be identified by her initials, AM, for reasons of privacy. asserted
who → love → privacy
When the divorcee broke up with her suitor, he turned the tech against her. asserted
he → break → her
“There were GPS trackers in my car,” she remembered, referring to widely available devices which connect to phones and are mostly used for tracking luggage. asserted
which → be → luggage
“At home, he messed with the lights, dimming them at random times, and switching off the TV when my daughter was watching. asserted
daughter → mess → TV
After the fact I realized that I was 100-percent targeted.” asserted
I → realize → fact
The stalker was also inside his victim’s computer cloud and knew her every move, from the buying of airline tickets to who she was emailing. asserted
she → know → who
“He employed multiple apps that I didn’t even know existed. asserted
I → employ → apps
And he also had people following me in other countries. asserted
he → have → countries
“He wanted to ruin my business. asserted
He → want → business
He got into my contacts and changed the names of people. asserted
He → get → people
A high-level creative director I deal with was put under the name of my babysitter. asserted
I → deal → babysitter
So, I think I am calling the babysitter, but I am actually calling a creative director. asserted
I → think → director
“He was trying to make me look crazy. asserted
me → try → ?
He was trying to destroy all of that,” she said. asserted
she → try → that
The victim has filed a police report with Connecticut authorities and they said the investigation into the ex, who has not been arrested, is ongoing. asserted
who → file → ex
“He knew he could paralyze me and take me down. uncertain
he → know → me
He used to say. asserted
He → use → ?
But I had no idea he could control me from afar.” uncertain
he → have → me
Steven S. Stern, principal of Safe Harbor Advisory, was engaged by the victim — who is “now on my fourth iPhone” as she tries to navigate her ordeal — to help overcome the stalking nightmare. asserted
she → engage → nightmare
He confirmed to The Post he had found invasive spyware on her devices. “The use of technology has become so sophisticated and almost impossible to defend against for a normal person,” Stern said. asserted
Stern → confirm → person
“They gain access to your phone, your computer, and they’re in your house.” asserted
they → gain → house
Cybercrime and technology-aided stalking are on the rise across the US. asserted
Cybercrime → aid → US
Aine O’Neill, a TV host from Ireland who had relocated to California, also fell victim to a stalker using tracking tags on her car. asserted
who → relocate → car
She even scrapped the vehicle in her bid to get free of them and said she ultimately had to leave Los Angeles, heading back to Ireland, to keep living a normal life. asserted
she → scrap → life
Her stalker has not publicly been identified. asserted
stalker → identify → ?
In another case in June of this year, New Yorker Anthony Belford was arraigned and charged with cyberstalking. asserted
Belford → arraign → cyberstalking
Allegedly posting AI-generated nudes of a woman against whom, feds claim, he had “allegedly waged a lengthy online campaign, hiding behind spoofed social media and email accounts … to cause substantial distress to his victim. uncertain
he → post → victim
He has yet to enter a plea in his case. asserted
He → have → case
Then there was Brett Michael Dadig, a social media influencer who billed himself as “God’s assassin” and used ChatGPT as his therapist while he stalked 11 women. asserted
he → be → women
According to Trib Live in Pennsylvania, he pleaded guilty to the crime, which was not facilitated by AI, although, he claimed that in his mind the technology had told him his deviant actions were a plan from God. uncertain
actions → accord → God
In the event that people’s accounts with AI companies and their chatbots get hacked, criminals can steal deeply intimate information. asserted
criminals → hack → information
“If they can get into your AI, they can see all the personal things you are putting in there,” Rachel Talley, a principal at Safe Harbor, told The Post. asserted
Talley → get → Post
“They can come at you psychologically as opposed to just physically or technologically.” asserted
They → come → you
Talley knows the pain because she personally experienced it. asserted
she → know → it
“I had a stalker who broke into my home when I was sleeping and used my thumbprint [on her cell phone] to get into my accounts,” she recalled. asserted
she → have → accounts
“He would send messages to people I knew and then block them when they responded. asserted
they → send → them
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