Birthday getaway turned deadly after bartender allegedly shoved ‘loving mom’ down stairs
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bartender → turn → stairs
A long-awaited getaway for two best friends celebrating birthdays together ended in tragedy when a bartender allegedly shoved a woman down stairs, leaving her fatally injured outside a South Carolina beachside bar.
Mary Lopez Hunt, 68, has been charged with voluntary manslaughter and assault and battery of a high and aggravated nature, according to Colleton County court records.
Ruth Peterson recalled the painful memory to Fox News Digital on Oct. 1, 2026, just two days before the one-year mark of her friend’s death.
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Peterson → await → death
Peterson had just left to get their car, as her friend, 62-year-old Minnesota resident Joyce Tomlinson, went to settle their tab at Coot’s Bar & Grill on Edisto Island at about 11 p.m. on Oct. 3, 2025.
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friend → leave → Oct.
Hearing her friend’s voice, Peterson turned at the bottom of the stairs and looked up, she said.
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she → hear → stairs
At the top of the stairs, she saw Tomlinson — a woman she described as meek and friendly — exchange words briefly with another woman behind her.
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she → see → her
She couldn’t hear what was said.
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what → hear → ?
“Next thing I know, Joyce had turned around to head back down [the stairs], and this woman runs at her, and with both hands just pushes her, and she just sailed,” Peterson said, stifling tears.
“She didn’t fall down the steps.
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She → know → steps
She didn’t roll down the steps…
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She → roll → steps
She didn’t touch the steps.”
“She went head first and landed on this concrete slab.”
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She → touch → slab
Peterson rushed to her friend and couldn’t find a pulse, she said.
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she → rush → pulse
Tomlinson began bleeding from her mouth and ears, she said.
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she → begin → mouth
“I knew it was bad.”
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it → know → ?
Hunt told authorities that Tomlinson was belligerent and yelled at bartenders before she was asked to leave, records show.
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records → tell → bartenders
She alleges that Tomlinson fell down the stairs.
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Tomlinson → allege → stairs
Authorities arrived at the bar and found Tomlinson lying on the pavement at the bottom of the stairs, according to a heavily redacted report.
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Tomlinson → arrive → report
Tomlinson was flown to a hospital by helicopter and she died a little more than three weeks later.
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she → fly → helicopter
‘Itty-bitty, tiny woman’
Tomlinson was an “itty-bitty, tiny” woman with a “meek and mild” personality, Peterson said.
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Peterson → say → personality
She can’t believe the legal aide who helped people resolve financial issues would start a fight, she said.
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she → believe → fight
Tomlinson and Peterson had been friends for 50 years, Peterson said.
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Peterson → say → years
As young girls in Minnesota, they loved to roller skate together.
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they → love → Minnesota
And as they grew older and started families of their own, their children grew up playing together, too.
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children → grow → own
Eventually, they moved away from each other but remained close friends.
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they → move → other
For years, they’d discussed meeting to celebrate their 60th birthdays together.
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they → discuss → birthdays
But “life got in the way,” Peterson said.
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Peterson → get → way
Then in 2025, Tomlinson called and said she was coming to visit in October so they could celebrate their birthdays together, Peterson remembered.
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Peterson → call → birthdays
When they checked into their rented condo in Edisto Beach, South Carolina, an employee recommended Coot’s Bar & Grill, she said.
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she → check → Bar
They sat at the bar and each had two drinks, Peterson said.
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Peterson → sit → drinks
When a solo performer began playing music, the two women stood up and danced.
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women → begin → music
Then the bar became crowded, so they decided to leave and catch up at the condo, Peterson said.
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Peterson → become → condo
Tomlinson went to pay the bill.
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Tomlinson → go → bill
Peterson went for the car.
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Peterson → go → car
“I left the bar and walked down the steps, the same steps that we came up [to go] in.
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we → leave → that
I turned around to see how far behind me she was … and that’s when I saw her standing at the top of the steps.”
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her → turn → steps
They never spoke again.
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They → speak → ?
Tomlinson’s friends and family still are trying to piece together how the fight could turned violent so quickly, Peterson said.
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Peterson → try → ?
At her funeral, friends and family remembered Tomlinson as “a loving mom” and “a trustworthy friend,” Peterson wrote in a eulogy read at the funeral.
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Peterson → remember → funeral
She wasn’t married but did leave behind a son.
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She → leave → son
“It’s just been very surreal,” Peterson said.
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Peterson → say → ?
“It’s very hard to believe that she’s gone and that somebody would do that to another person.”
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somebody → ’ → person
Hunt was released on $100,000 bond for each of her charges.
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Hunt → release → charges
…and 4 more, not listed.
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