Country singer and political commentator Alexis Wilkins has announced her engagement to FBI Director Kash Patel after three years of dating.
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Wilkins, 27, confirmed that they would be tying the knot with a post on X, which she captioned: “Went and got the law involved.”
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The pair have been dating since at least 2023, with Patel, 46, since becoming a controversial figure after his appointment as FBI director in 2025.
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Several of those controversies have been centered around Wilkins herself, with her now-fiancé reportedly using an FBI plane to travel to an event where she was singing.
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Below we look at what we know about the FBI director’s future wife.
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Growing up in Europe and the United States
Wilkins was born in Boston, Massachusetts, to her Gillett executive father and aerospace financial specialist mother.
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Speaking on The Megyn Kelly Show, Wilkins revealed she grew up in both the U.S. and in Europe, spending time in the United Kingdom and Switzerland.
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In England she lived in the historic English town of Windsor, which is also home to the Royal Family’s Windsor Castle, and went to boarding school near Geneva.
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Backed in the U.S., the young music fan would go on to live in Arkansas.
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“It was my favourite place that I lived,” she told Kelly.
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“That’s where the country music came from
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In order to support Wilkins’ goal of becoming a country music artist, her family eventually moved to Nashville, her website reads.
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She also graduated from Belmont University, majoring in business and political science.
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Wilkins would dabble as a child actor, appearing in two episodes of the hit ABC comedy Modern Family in 2009 and also making appearances in Disney’s Dog with a Blog and Nickelodeon's Instant Mom.
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Her other credits include a small part in the 2011 Adam Sandler movie Jack and Jill.
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Wilkins loves traditional country music
Inheriting a Gibson guitar from her great-grandfather, she has been writing songs from the age of nine, and began traveling to Nashville for music trips in her teens.
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She released her debut EP, Grit , back in 2023.
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The release features tracks including Heaven in a Stetson and One of the Guys.
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According to Wilkins’ website, the album debuted at 12th place on the iTunes country album charts.
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Musically, Wilkins is a traditionalist, with “unapologetic storytelling, cowboy-like leaning, and definitive pull from the past,” her website says.
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“Country music is here to stay” Wilkins herself goes on to say.
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“I want people to hear truthful songs.
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Wilkins has sung the national anthem on a number of notable occasions, including once at President Trump's Great American State Fair to celebrate the 250th anniversary of the signing of the Declaration of Independence.
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Several other artists had pulled out of the celebration due to the event not being nonpartisan.
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Outside of music, Wilkins enjoys spending time with her dog, collecting old books and working on her 1989 F-150 Lariat pickup truck, her website adds.
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Wilkins has spoken often about her conservative views
Wilkins became more widely known as a conservative political commentator.
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In December 2024, she announced on X that she would serve as press secretary to incoming Representative Abe Hamadeh.
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“Honored to be a part of ushering in leadership for a safer, more prosperous, GREATER nation,” she wrote on X. “Excited to be on the team.
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Let’s make answering to the people great again.”
According to her LinkedIn page, she has been a board committee member of the National Rifle Association as well as a consultant for The American Border Story since 2025.
The singer has also worked with PragerU, starring in a 2023 video entitled Alexis Wilkins: I Found My Voice in My Love for America.
“I grew up in a Christian home,” she says in the video.
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“My parents definitely taught me the role that God plays in all of our lives and in my life.
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And I think that that’s definitely a huge part of who I am now.”
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In the clip, Wilkins goes on to set out her criticisms of modern society in the U.S.
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We have access, widespread access, to really anything we need,” she says.
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“We’ve had no military draft, we have no wartime application.
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We have Postmates.
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Wilkins’ relationship with Patel has attracted much press attention
Wilkins said on The Megyn Kelly Show that she first met Patel while at an event at a friend’s house.
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The pair have been dating since at least 2023.
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“I just liked that he was so, so honest.
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He is exactly who he is all the time,” she said.
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You know, we both are very patriotic, so obviously there are things there that we definitely agree on.”
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…and 12 more, not listed.
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