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Ex-husband’s petty list of ‘marriage sacrifices’ infuriates friends, strangers. ‘How can I also divorce him?’

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Grace, A. (2026, October 7). Ex-husband’s petty list of ‘marriage sacrifices’ infuriates friends, strangers. ‘How can I also divorce him?’. New York Post. https://nypost.com/2026/10/07/lifestyle/ex-husbands-list-of-marriage-sacrifices-infuriates-social-media/

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An Atlanta woman named Riley Madison posted a TikTok about a list her ex-husband sent during their divorce proceedings that detailed what he supposedly sacrificed in their marriage. The list included items like giving up casual sex and working at a regular job, along with more bizarre claims such as sacrificing his free time to act like a jerk. The post gained significant attention, with 15.5 million views, sparking discussions about narcissistic behavior and the prevalence of similar toxic relationships.

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An Atlanta mother named Riley Madison shared on TikTok a list her ex-husband sent during their divorce proceedings, detailing "sacrifices" made in their marriage. The list includes items like foregone sexual encounters and giving up his free time to work a 9-to-5 job. One of the most shocking points was that he considered being faithful as his top sacrifice by claiming it involved "Every woman I could’ve had sex with since you and I got together." This bizarre statement has drawn criticism from viewers, questioning both the nature of these supposed sacrifices and the ex-husband's mental health. The video received over 15.5 million views, highlighting public outrage at such selfish claims made during a divorce.

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In the middle of her divorce, an Atlanta mom named Riley Madison was handed a long list of “sacrifices” that her ex had made in the course of their doomed marriage — including, apparently, boinking with other women. asserted

ex → name → women

“My ex-husband sent me a list of things he had to give up in order to be in a relationship with me,” said Madison, whose TikTok about the crude checklist boasts 15.5 million viewers. asserted

TikTok → send → viewers

Madison’s ex put fidelity as his number one sacrifice — or in his words, “‘Every woman I could’ve had sex with since you and I got together.’” uncertain

you → put → sex

(Unsurprisingly, he does not mention if any women were actually willing to sleep with him during this time.) asserted

women → mention → time

The ex-husband also blames Madison for needing to hold down a basic job: “I gave up my free time during the week to work a 9-to-5 so that we could get ahead financially.” uncertain

we → blame → 9

The list contained 15 more bizarre grudges, including forgoing “regular conversations with many women,” saving “money that I could have spent on myself,” and, curiously, “acting like a jerk.” uncertain

I → contain → jerk

“Why was he proud to be an a—hole?,” questioned a confused commenter beneath the clip. asserted

commenter → question → clip

CATEGORICALLY NOT TRUE,” another wrote, with no lies detected. asserted

lies → write → ?

“This is what men think ‘suffering’ is,” a critic teased. asserted

critic → think → ?

“How can I also divorce him?,” a separate onlooker joked. asserted

onlooker → divorce → him

Armchair analysts in the comments called the now-single man a “narcissist,” a “deviant” and simply “a clown.” asserted

analysts → call → man

That’s according to Susan Spicer, a licensed clinical psychologist, who recently warned The Post. uncertain

who → accord → Post

“95% of my patients are the victims of narcissistic abuse and trauma,” said the pro. asserted

pro → say → abuse

She said that classic tactics include gaslighting, manipulation, blame shifting and avoidance of accountability — all things displayed in the ex-husband’s dismal note. asserted

tactics → say → note

These tormentors rarely rehabilitate their treacherous ways, according to recent studies. uncertain

tormentors → rehabilitate → studies

“You wouldn’t expect someone you knew as a very narcissistic person to have completely changed when you meet them again after some years,” said Dr. Ulrich Orth, a Swiss psychologist who studied over 30,000 narcissists in a groundbreaking study. asserted

who → expect → study

“This was true even across very long periods of time, which suggests that narcissism is a stable personality trait. uncertain

narcissism → suggest → time

On her TikTok, she revealed she was reading the horrible memo from her ex… while in bed with her new — and very cute — husband. asserted

she → reveal → husband

Ex-husband’s petty list of ‘marriage sacrifices’ infuriates friends, strangers. ‘How can I also divorce him?’

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