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Earl Spencer criticises Princess Anne for 'making me feel small' with withering response to question about Zara Phillips before Diana's wedding

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Duell, M. (2026, October 8). Earl Spencer criticises Princess Anne for 'making me feel small' with withering response to question about Zara Phillips before Diana's wedding. Daily Mail. https://www.dailymail.com/news/royals/article-16190355/Earl-Spencer-criticises-Princess-Anne-making-feel-small.html?ns_mchannel=rss&ns_campaign=1490&ito=1490

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Daily Mail · collected 2026-10-08 · by Mark Duell

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Earl Spencer recounts an incident from July 27, 1981, at a Buckingham Palace dinner celebrating his sister Princess Diana’s wedding to Prince Charles. At age 17, he was seated next to Princess Anne and attempted to start a conversation about the christening of her daughter Zara Phillips. Instead of engaging positively, Spencer claims Anne responded with disdain, asking how a christening is supposed to go, leaving him embarrassed. This account, from his new book "Swan Song: Diana, My Sister," highlights the tension between royals and has sparked further controversy.
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Earl Spencer criticizes Princess Anne for making him feel small at a Buckingham Palace dinner two days before his sister Princess Diana's wedding on July 27, 1981. At age 17, Earl Spencer attempted to start a conversation with Princess Anne about the christening of her daughter Zara Phillips earlier that day but was met with a dismissive and "withering" response when he asked how a christening is supposed to go. This incident is detailed in his new book "Swan Song: Diana, My Sister," which has sparked controversy. Buckingham Palace has not addressed the claims directly, leading to ongoing tensions over Spencer's recollections of royal interactions.

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Anne PERSON · 9× Diana PERSON · 4× Buckingham Palace ORG · 3× Charles PERSON · 3× Japan GPE · 2× Zara Phillips PERSON · 2× Earl Spencer PERSON · 1× Prince Charles PERSON · 1× Princess Diana PERSON · 1× the Princess Royal PERSON · 1×

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In the book, which was serialised in the Daily Mail last month, the earl writes: 'I was told that I was to be seated on Princess Anne's table at dinner and thought that I must have some conversation to present her with, should she talk to me.' Earl Spencer's book about Princess Diana has sparked a war of words with Buckingham Palace The earl was sat next to Princess Anne at the dinner in 1981.
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🔮 'It was the luck of the draw that night, whether you were placed next to a royal who was happy to make you feel small, or one who had the grace and manners to look for common ground, wherever it might be found.

Claims (20 extracted, 7 hedged)

Earl Spencer has recalled the moment Princess Anne allegedly made him 'feel small' at a Buckingham Palace dinner two days before his sister Princess Diana's wedding. uncertain
him → recall → wedding
The earl said he was sat next to the Princess Royal at a formal event to celebrate his sister's marriage to Prince Charles on July 27, 1981, when he was aged just 17. asserted
he → say → July
Anne's daughter Zara Phillips had been christened earlier that day at Windsor Castle, and the teenaged Spencer attempted to start a conversation on the topic. asserted
Spencer → christen → topic
While he was expecting a joyful response, he claims Anne instead looked at him 'witheringly' and asked: 'Tell me, how's a christening supposed to go?' uncertain
christening → expect → me
He explained how he immediately 'turned red and looked at my plate, unable to conjure up a reply' – given he was '17 and clueless about dinner party small talk'. asserted
he → explain → talk
The earl then looked across and saw his brother-in-law Neil McCorquodale having a much happier conversation with the Crown Princess of Japan about 'rice cultivation'. asserted
brother → look → cultivation
The claim about Anne – to which she has not responded – is the latest to emerge from the earl's new book 'Swan Song: Diana, My Sister', which has sparked a war of words with Buckingham Palace. uncertain
which → respond → Palace
In the book, which was serialised in the Daily Mail last month, the earl writes: 'I was told that I was to be seated on Princess Anne's table at dinner and thought that I must have some conversation to present her with, should she talk to me.' Earl Spencer's book about Princess Diana has sparked a war of words with Buckingham Palace The earl was sat next to Princess Anne at the dinner in 1981. asserted
earl → serialise → 1981
She is pictured in York last week Princess Anne holds her baby daughter Zara Phillips at Windsor Castle on July 27, 1981 Princess Anne (left) and Princess Margaret on July 29, 1981, after Charles and Diana's wedding 'It transpired, to my alarm, that I was actually placed next to Anne, and when she turned my way, I asked, "And how did your daughter's christening go today, Ma'am?" asserted
christening → picture → Anne
I expected her to run away with the happy topic of her baby Zara's baptism. asserted
her → expect → baby
But instead she stopped, looked at me witheringly, and asked, "Tell me, how's a christening supposed to go?" asserted
christening → stop → me
And I, being 17 and clueless about dinner party small talk, turned red and looked at my plate, unable to conjure up a reply. ' asserted
I → turn → reply
Across the room, my brother-in-law Neil, whose family were arable farmers in Lincolnshire, found less fallow ground. asserted
family → find → ground
Placed next to the Crown Princess of Japan, he had an easy conversation about rice cultivation. asserted
he → place → cultivation
'It was the luck of the draw that night, whether you were placed next to a royal who was happy to make you feel small, or one who had the grace and manners to look for common ground, wherever it might be found. uncertain
it → place → ground
The earl's book has made headlines around the world for its string of allegations against Charles, including that he said 'we'll forget her soon enough' about Diana. asserted
we → make → Diana
The comment was allegedly made during an argument in 1997 over whether Princes William and Harry should walk behind their mother's coffin in her funeral procession. uncertain
William → make → procession
The memoir, released on September 22, also claims that Charles 'sounded giddily elated – like a lottery winner' when he spoke to the earl after Diana's death. uncertain
he → release → death
In a strongly worded response last month, Buckingham Palace said the King was 'mindful that the pain of fraternal grief can cloud reason, affect judgement and colour memory in ways others do not recognise, even many years after such a loss'. asserted
others → word → loss
The Palace today declined to comment about the claim relating to Anne. uncertain
Palace → decline → Anne
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