Patrick Clancy says a therapy treatment he used to cope with the trauma of losing his children worked “like a miracle.”
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Speaking in extended clips from the latest episode of “60 Minutes,” the 36-year-old said that EMDR, a trauma-focused psychotherapy, helped him face what he was dealing with “head on.”
“It’s unpleasant but they get you used to dealing with that,” Clancy said.
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“And, eventually, you’re better at processing it …
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After I did it — all of those sessions — the waking up screaming, the horrible dreams, they mostly stopped.
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I mean, it was like a miracle.”
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Clancy spoke out for the first time since his ex-wife, Lindsay Clancy, went on trial for allegedly killing their three young children — Cora, 5; Dawson, 3; and 8-month-old Callan — at their Duxbury, Massachusetts, home on Jan. 24, 2023.
He said that the “traumatic” memories of the event can be “overwhelming.”
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“I think the thing that helped the most was EMDR,” he told CBS correspondent Ross Douthat.
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“It’s a little unusual.
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They put you right back in that place that you’ve been trying to avoid for years and you face it head-on.”
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Here’s everything to know about EMDR.
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EMDR stands for eye movement desensitization and reprocessing.
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It is a type of psychotherapy that uses bilateral stimulation — typically eye movements, going back and forth — to help a patient heal from psychological trauma.
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According to the EMDR Institute, when EMDR therapy is successful, the distressing events and trauma are “transformed on an emotional level.”
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“For instance, a rape victim shifts from feeling horror and self-disgust to holding the firm belief that, ‘I survived it and I am strong,'” they explain.
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What happens in EMDR therapy sessions?
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It’s usually an eight-phase process.
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The phases are:
Selecting a memory to process
Learning how EMDR works and developing coping and relaxing skills
Identifying the images, beliefs, emotions and sensations associated with the memory
Easing the distress by following the therapist’s fingers as they move back and forth, listening to alternating tones through headphones or tapping on the body
Replacing the negative belief tied to the memory with a positive one
Making sure there isn’t lingering physical tension or discomfort related to the memory
Closing the session to allow the patient to return to a calm, stable state
Evaluating their progress and adjusting if necessary
How does EMDR therapy work?
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EMDR patients focus on a traumatic or distressing memory while engaging in bilateral stimulation — or something that alternates from side to side.
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This often involves moving one’s eyes to follow a therapist’s fingers or, in teletherapy, might involve watching an icon move back and forth on a screen.
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Bilateral stimulation can also be auditory, meaning listing to sounds that switch between the left and right ears.
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This can help patients feel less distress in response to those memories.
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There are a few theories as to why this works, though scientists aren’t completely sure.
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One is that those back-and-forth movements help patients focus on traumatic memories without become emotionally overwhelmed by them.
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Their brains are then able to change how the memories are stored, making them feel like less of an immediate threat.
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Another theory is that the bilateral stimulation impacts working memory, making the trauma less vivid or emotionally intense.
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It’s most often used to treat Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).
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Mental health practitioners also use it to treat anxiety, depression, panic disorders and addiction.
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How long does EMDR take to work?
The length of treatment time varies by patient.
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Some can see improvement after just a few sessions, while others need months or years.
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Several major organizations recommend EMDR, including the US Department of Veterans Affairs and Department of Defense, the American Psychological Association and the World Health Organization.
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There is also scientific research that supports its benefits.
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A 2025 systematic review of 17 studies found evidence that EMDR can improve PTSD symptoms, while a 2023 meta-analysis found that EMDR significantly reduces PTSD symptoms.
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What celebrities have done EMDR?
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Prince Harry opened up about using EMDR in the Apple TV+ documentary series “The Me You Can’t See,” even demonstrating on camera.
“EMDR and talk therapy has helped me immensely, and now I can walk through certain streets without being retraumatized,” she said.
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“I encourage you to get help if you need it and I want you to know, it gets better.”
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Miley Cyrus called it “so helpful” in an interview with British Vogue in 2023: “Essentially, you delete the physical sensations associated with these painful memories.
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The EMDR really helped me.”
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Other stars who have spoken out about the therapy include Sandra Bullock, Jameela Jamil, Evan Rachel Wood, Whitney Cummings and Paris Jackson.
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